Welcome Party: Indian Attire or Western Cocktail / Semi-Formal.
Guests are encouraged to wear cocktail attire inspired by muted coastal and garden tones — think sage, olive, warm browns, soft earth tones, mauves, and elevated neutrals.
Please avoid shades of blue and ivory.
Please avoid red if you will be wearing Indian attire.
Suggested palette: Sage • Olive • Moss • Camel • Cognac • Chocolate • Taupe • Dusty Rose • Mauve • Muted Plum
Wedding Day: Formal
Our wedding will have a romantic, moody garden atmosphere; please wear elevated evening attire with rich colors, interesting textures, florals, and refined details.
Please avoid white.
Coastal Luxury: Set along the Oceanside waterfront, The Seabird blends laid-back California charm with an elevated seaside feel. Spend your downtime by the pool, unwind at the spa, stroll the beach, or explore the restaurants and bars just steps away. Settle in, soak up the ocean views, and make a weekend of celebrating with us.
Boutique Vibes: A beautifully restored historic building in downtown Oceanside. With just 10 rooms, exposed brick details, a rooftop bar, and an unbeatable walkable location near the beach, restaurants, and nightlife, The Brick offers a fun and intimate stay.
Comfort & Convenience: A relaxed and convenient coastal stay just one block from the beach and Oceanside Pier. Spacious suites, complimentary breakfast, and a rooftop pool with Pacific views make this a great option for guests looking for extra space and an easy home base for the wedding weekend!
For our out-of-town guests, San Diego International Airport (SAN) is the closest major airport, with Oceanside about a 45-minute drive up the coast. Once you land, grab a rental car or rideshare and make your way north for a beautiful California weekend by the ocean.